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このブログでは、悩めるふつうの主婦が、ある日、佐藤康行先生のYSメソッドで自分の中に眠っていた本当の自分＝真我に出会い、人生を好転した体験や、新しい視点でとらえたの日々の出来事や佐藤先生について綴っています！
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おはようございます！
いつも読んで頂いてありがとうございます！
おかげさまで日々大きな気付きと発見があります！また近くシェアーさせていただきます。
今日は親子の関係についての明快答です！
質問者：長男は中学を出て就職しましたが、仕事を休みがちで将来的にも心配です・・・
佐藤先生：息子さんの人生ですから、すべて本人に判断させることが大切です。
ただ、仕事に関してはいろんな選択肢をたくさん与えてあげればいいですね。
お母さんはメニューを見せるようにいろんな職種があることを教えてあげて。
ただしどんな判断も絶対に本人にさせる。
本人が判断して決断してやらないと、うまくいかなかった時もどこがわるかったのかわからないでしょ。
100%彼の人生ですから自分でやって自分で責任をとらないといけないんです。
自分の責任でやったら、やった分だけ自分に戻ってくる。
親はたとえ子供がホームレスになっても構わない覚悟で見守ることが大事です。
※この質疑応答はあくまでも質問者に対するものであり、誰にでも当てはまるとは限りませんのでご了承ください！
最後まで読んでいただきありがとうございます。よろしかったらバナーをポチっと２つクリックしていただけると嬉しいです！
Have you ever thought about ”who you really are”? You might sometimes wonder what you actually want to do in life, even though you strive hard for your better life.
Your True Self, your Best Self knows all the answers.
"The true self" here doesn't mean your true feeling or real intention that is often compared with stated reasons, but the authentic self that is united as one with life of everything in the whole universe including all the natural elements.
Therefore, of course it is common for all humanity. It is the most wonderful self that lies deep down within you.
Ever since I discovered my true self through a YS approach developed by Yasuyuki Sato, I have experienced so many changes in life, and now I myself offer the true self discovery seminars.
おはようございます！
いつも読んで頂いてありがとうございます！
おかげさまで日々大きな気付きと発見があります！また近くシェアーさせていただきます。
今日は親子の関係についての明快答です！
佐藤康行の悩み解決明快答！
質問者：長男は中学を出て就職しましたが、仕事を休みがちで将来的にも心配です・・・
佐藤先生：息子さんの人生ですから、すべて本人に判断させることが大切です。
ただ、仕事に関してはいろんな選択肢をたくさん与えてあげればいいですね。
その中から一番ワクワクするものを本人が見つける。
お母さんはメニューを見せるようにいろんな職種があることを教えてあげて。
ただしどんな判断も絶対に本人にさせる。
本人が判断して決断してやらないと、うまくいかなかった時もどこがわるかったのかわからないでしょ。
100%彼の人生ですから自分でやって自分で責任をとらないといけないんです。
自分の責任でやったら、やった分だけ自分に戻ってくる。
親はたとえ子供がホームレスになっても構わない覚悟で見守ることが大事です。
※この質疑応答はあくまでも質問者に対するものであり、誰にでも当てはまるとは限りませんのでご了承ください！
最後まで読んでいただきありがとうございます。よろしかったらバナーをポチっと２つクリックしていただけると嬉しいです！
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Hello. I'm Kazu.
Your True Self, your Best Self knows all the answers.
"The true self" here doesn't mean your true feeling or real intention that is often compared with stated reasons, but the authentic self that is united as one with life of everything in the whole universe including all the natural elements.
Therefore, of course it is common for all humanity. It is the most wonderful self that lies deep down within you.
As I present workshops both in Japanese and English, I have witnessed many people from different countries who had wonderful experiences by meeting their true self.
Thank you very much for reading. Please click on the banners below. It will give me a tremendous boost to write a blog!
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Ask Mr. Sato!
Questioner: My first son got a job after graduating from junior high school, but he often fails to show up for work. I'm concerned about his future...
Mr. Sato: All you have to do is not to meddle in his life. You should allow him to make any kind of decisions on his own about his life.
However, as he is still young, you can show him various kinds of job options just like you show him a menu at a restaurant, and let him choose the most exciting one by himself.
The point is that you should allow him to make any kind of decisions, otherwise he can't be responsible about his life. He can learn a lesson even if he makes a mistake. If you make a decision instead of him, he can't learn anything from it.
Moreover, you have to prepare yourself for the worst so that you can let go of all your fears and concerns. You should watch over him while you are determined to accept anything about his future.
Mr. Sato: All you have to do is not to meddle in his life. You should allow him to make any kind of decisions on his own about his life.
However, as he is still young, you can show him various kinds of job options just like you show him a menu at a restaurant, and let him choose the most exciting one by himself.
The point is that you should allow him to make any kind of decisions, otherwise he can't be responsible about his life. He can learn a lesson even if he makes a mistake. If you make a decision instead of him, he can't learn anything from it.
Moreover, you have to prepare yourself for the worst so that you can let go of all your fears and concerns. You should watch over him while you are determined to accept anything about his future.
Thank you very much for reading. Please click on the banners below. It will give me a tremendous boost to write a blog!
