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このブログでは、悩めるふつうの主婦が、ある日、佐藤康行先生のYSメソッドで自分の中に眠っていた本当の自分＝真我に出会い、人生を好転した体験や、新しい視点でとらえたの日々の出来事、また佐藤先生について綴っています！
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おはようございます！
いつも読んで頂いてありがとうございます！
Have you ever thought about ”who you really are”? You might sometimes wonder what you actually want to do in life, even though you strive hard for your better life.
Your True Self, your Best Self knows all the answers.
"The true self" here doesn't mean your true feeling or real intention that is often compared with stated reasons, but the authentic self that is united as one with life of everything in the whole universe including all the natural elements.
Therefore, of course it is common for all humanity. It is the most wonderful self that lies deep down within you.
Ever since I discovered my true self through a YS approach developed by Yasuyuki Sato, I have experienced so many changes in life, and now I myself offer the true self discovery seminars.
おはようございます！
いつも読んで頂いてありがとうございます！
佐藤康行悩み解決明快答！！
質問者１：両親は離婚しています。弟は１０年くらい引きこもりで、自分も３０歳ですがなかなか良い結婚相手に巡り会えません・・・
佐藤先生：両親が離婚をしていたり、不仲だったりすると、結婚する気になれなかったり、結婚してもかなりの確率で同じようなことになる可能性がでてきます。
深い無意識のところで敵（かたき）を討っている。自分を責めるか両親を責めるか。裁きの心が出てくるからです。
とはいっても離婚されたご両親をもとにもどすことはできません。実は離婚をしていてもそうでなくても、自分の心の中にいる両親の仲がよければよいのです。
事実はそのままで、自分の心の中で両親が完全に仲良くなれば目の前のことは変わってきます。なぜなら裁きの心が消えるからです。すると、引きこもりをしている弟さんも堂々と表に出られるようになります。
私のとらえる結婚というのは、人間の婚姻届のことではありません。もっと生命の源からとらえたときの精子と卵子の結びつきのことを言います。その仲が良かった結果が自分だということがわかると、そこから見た時に別れた両親が一つになることが可能なのです。
質問者２：佐藤先生は起こる出来事は全て良きことだとおっしゃいますが、どのように捉えたらいいのでしょうか？
佐藤先生：そうですね。例えば、良いこと悪いことというのは目的、状況、立場によって違ってくるんです。
もし会社で平社員の時に上司に叱られたら「悪いこと」ってなるでしょ？でも、会社を持って自分が経営者だったらわざわざコンサルタントを雇って、自分を叱ってくれる人にお金を払うんですよ。自分に注意してくれる人にお金を払う。自分にごまをする人にはお金を払わないです。だから良いことも悪いことも自分の目的によってコロコロ変わるわけ。
例えば仮に今コーヒーを飲んでいてこぼしたとします。服にシミがつくと慌てて拭こうとしますよね。
しかし、コーヒーを飲んでいる場所の近くに崖があったらどうでしょうか。自分の後ろが崖なのに暗くてよく見えない。その崖に向かって歩きながらコーヒーを飲んでいて、後一歩で崖から落ちそうになっている。
そのような状況にあったとしたら、こぼしたコーヒーを拭いているどころではありません。
だから中途半端なところからでなく、本当の自分の命の部分で、一番究極の部分からものごとを捉えることが大事なのです。
※この質疑応答はあくまでも質問者に対するものであり、誰にでも当てはまるとは限りませんのでご了承ください！
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Hello. I'm Kazu.
Your True Self, your Best Self knows all the answers.
"The true self" here doesn't mean your true feeling or real intention that is often compared with stated reasons, but the authentic self that is united as one with life of everything in the whole universe including all the natural elements.
Therefore, of course it is common for all humanity. It is the most wonderful self that lies deep down within you.
As I present workshops both in Japanese and English, I have witnessed many people from different countries who had wonderful experiences by meeting their true self.
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Ask Mr. Sato!
Questioner 1: My parents got divorced and my younger brother stays at home all the time without having a job. I also find it difficult to meet a good partner.
Mr. Sato: In many cases people fall into the similar situation as their parents had, especially when parents got divorced or had a bad relationship. It is because they unconsciously blame either their parents or themselves.
Having said that, it is impossible to let parents get together again. The important thing is how you see the relationship of your parents in your mind. The fact that they got divorced doesn't matter very much, but the way you see them really matters.
It is good, if you can really think that they love each other despite their divorce. Even when the situation about your parents remains the same, things will start to change for the better if you actually feel that they love each other no matter what.
Then, your younger brother who refuses to go out will also change, as he doesn't have to blame anyone unconsciously.
Well, in my view marriage represents not registration in the city office but joining of sperm and egg when it is seen from the perspective of Life. When we see everything from that view point, it is quite possible to solve any problems.
Questioner 2: Mr. Sato, you always say that there is no good or bad in everything, but I don't get it well.
Mr. Sato: You usually judge things whether it is good or bad according to your convenience, but the truth is there is no such a thing. Everything is necessary and good to you in that sense. Whether it is good or bad depends on the situation or condition facing you.
For example, if you are a rank-and-file employee and get reprimanded by your boss, you may think that it is bad.
But if you a corporate manager who runs a company, you will have someone like a consultant to give you advice. You actually pay for the advice to you. You never pay someone who says flattering things.
It means that whether it is good or bad is determined by your situation, or condition or purpose.
Let me give you another example. Now you are drinking coffee and spill it on your shirt. You will probably try to wipe it off in a hurry. But just imagine you are drinking coffee just on the verge of a cliff in the dark, and someone warn you to stay away from there in a hurry as you may fall down.
In this situation you won't pay attention to the coffee stain on your shirt anymore.
What I want to tell you is that you always have to make a judgement from a perspective of wholeness or Life itself. It is very important.
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